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Limitless Life: Chapter 1

“Soul Tattoos: indelible marks that are imprinted on our hearts and limit us.” Derwin Gray

I am reading the book Limitless Life with women from Proverbs 31 ministry. For me a book has to capture my attention right away, any one else feel this way? Then I love to ponder thoughts and concepts that I glean from the book. If it is a paper back book, my highlighter is my ever trusty companion. If it is in my Kindle, I highlight sections that are meaningful.  The book capture my heart, I knew God sent this book as a lighthouse to my heart, mind, and soul.

Soul Tattoos: I have many of these marks imprinted on my heart and limit me. Mark Batterson wrote the foreword for Derwin Gray, the author of this book. He said, “We are namers by nature. Adam named the animals, we label everything and we label people. If you label yourself a failure, you limit your success; if you label yourself a disappointment, you limit your ability to see that people appreciate you or that God appreciates you.” I have labeled myself names such as fat, disappointment, failure, and of course the wrong choices I made often haunt me.

Derwin Gray  writes, “Jesus became our label, when he tears off the old markers and imprints his life on ours, with Christ our identity makes a radical transformation and the things that held us back become the steps we walk on our journey with Jesus.”

Like Mr. Gray, I have battled against destructive labels. I believe the negative messages that come from the labels. He says in chapter one, “the labels are stitched on our hearts at an early age and this has limited our lives. A false label leads to living a lie. A life built on a lie places you in spiritual prison. A destructive label leads to living a destructive life. There is a soul thief a dark enemy that wants to nail labels our hearts so he can steal your life. Additionally, it isn’t enough to remove old hurtful labels, we must write new labels on our hearts to begin infusing positive messages.”

He talks about an “Afraid” label. He says, “An afraid label in your heart produces a fear of rejection, produces a fear of not being good enough. When the afraid label is sewn into our hearts, we fear the unknown.”

I am guilty of labeling people and most of all I have labeled myself. My labels have changed over the years. As a child,  I have a blind eye, insecurity invaded my life. As a teenager, I did not feel that I was pretty so I was afraid and insecure. As a young wife and mother, I struggled with illness, so I once again felt failure. I made some poor choices so I felt condemned. As I grow older, I have less labels that is because I work at freedom in Christ.

Soul Tattoos: I am looking forward to the healing that God will do in my life.  I want healthy soul tattoo’s. How about you?

Isaiah 61: 1-3  I want to proclaim liberty to the captives.  Romans 8:1 I want other to know there is no condemnation in Christ Jesus.  Romans 8:38-39 I want you to know nothing can separate you from the love of God. According to 2 Timothy 1:7 For God did not give us a spirit of timidity (fear) but of power and love and discipline.

What labels have you applied to your life?

What fears are you facing?

Father God, I pray for each woman who suffers with negative labels. I pray right now that she adopt her real identity as your daughter. I pray for healing for each woman  has a negative soul tattoo that she seek freedom that only Christ can give. May she embrace courage today, release the fear that is holding her captive. Broken to beautiful, fearful to courageous.  Isaiah 61:1-3. Blessings

Diana

 

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7 Comments

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    Kathy Rockwell
    May 28, 2014 at 3:09 pm

    I have always thought of you as a sister not a sister in law. you have been and always will be family. we all have put label’s on our selves. Me i’m just the one that does it cause i’m told I can’t, I h
    ave the soul tattoos. Mine are things that others have told me that I should not have done that, well I deal with things the best way I can. Diana you have always been there for me in one way or another and that to me tells me I am one very lucky person and very thankful for you in my life..I want you to know that I love you as my sister and always will.. You have done so many great things that you have not given yourself credit for.

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    shannan williams
    May 28, 2014 at 7:47 pm

    Wow this was really powerful, thank you for sharing such deep and personal feelings. As I am reading the same book as you I am just loving the freedom that this book has given me thus far. I too have gone through life with many labels; insecure, rejection, abandonment, fear, disappointment… the list goes on. But it is so nice to know that we don’t have to live that way anymore. I like the phrase “soul tattoos” and I too want healthy soul tattoos. We do have freedom in Christ and we just need to allow Him to work in us to heal us from those unhealthy tattoos. Chapter one was a real eye opener for me in one respect. I feel called to write a devotional book but have been putting it off for fear of rejection. Well after reading chapter 1 I put that feeling aside and decided to go for it and be courageous. I started my book and have written 4 pages so far. (By the way I read chapter 2 tonight and it was just as amazing if not more) Best wishes and blessings to you Diana

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      blessingsrockwell@gmail.com
      May 29, 2014 at 3:48 pm

      Shannan, thank you for taking the time to read it and for the wonderful affirmations. God is going to work wonderfully through your future book.

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    Charlotte
    June 3, 2014 at 5:35 am

    Diana I loved reading this, especially for the reminder of promises in Isaiah. I have been struggling to write my list of labels. It’s not because I don’t have them, but because I have written them so deeply to my heart that it is me. I’ve resigned myself to that fact.. Oh the limitations. Reading your blog has helped me to start recognizing them. I have yet to begin rewriting them though.

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      blessingsrockwell@gmail.com
      June 3, 2014 at 6:24 am

      Charlotte, start with praying out loud to renounce the lies or labels you have believed and announce the truth. It would look like this, Father God, I renounce the lie that I am worthless and I announce the truth in Psalm 139:14, I am fearfully and wonderfully made. We have to pray aloud because Satan condemns you but he can’t read your mind, only God can read your mind. Condemnation is from Satan, Conviction is from the Lord. When we announce the truth aloud, we then can write what havoc the lies have caused in our lives. Father God I pray for Charlotte that she realize how much you love her, do not let condemnation prevent her from living the life that you want her to live. In the freeing name of Jesus. Blessings, Diana

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